In the lesson plans I include four or five songs for you to teach your child. Some of them aren’t actually singable, but are instead “finger-plays” – a type of chant, usually rhyming, and always using finger and hand motions. Twos and threes especially enjoy finger-plays – think of the “Ensy-Wensy Spider” if you’re still not sure what I’m talking about, although that one is set to music.

Any child can learn to sing! It is easier than learning to play violin or piano, and Dr. Suzuki’s method has shown the world thousands upon thousands of tiny children who have learned to play either instrument with sensitivity and beauty. Singing is as easy as talking – you just talk on pitch!

Here is a precious news cast about a seven year old girl who brings joy to the lives of others through her beautiful, God-given talent. ReverbNation places her at the top of the chart for Christian Gospel singers. She filmed a scene for a new movie due to be released next fall, “Machine Gun Preacher”, about a drug-dealer turned Christian, who dedicates the rest of his life to saving children in war-torn areas.

May you find your heart uplifted by this lovely little girl. I went straight to her website and ordered her CD for my mom!

May God bless you and your family,

Lorelei

Suzuki did not want to raise a nation of musicians.  Teaching children to be concert violinists was never his goal.  Teaching them to have beautiful spirits was.  He lived through both world wars.  What a lot of ugliness he must have seen, and yet he was not embittered by it.   His father’s violin factory was bombed, and one brother was killed in the explosion.  But this modest, self-taught musician with only a high school diploma went on to change the world.  In 1991, a the age of 93, he was selected as one of the most influential people of the twentieth century.

What is the mother tongue method?  How does a baby learn to speak?  He is first loved.  He is surrounded by language and quiet acceptance.  His parents already love him – he does not have to earn that love by learning to speak.  His parents speak to him, as though he could already understand.  They surround him with words.  They sing to him, talk to him, read to him, and when he utters his first babbling sounds, they praise him profusely.  What parent isn’t proud to tell everyone at the office when his baby son first makes the sound “da-da”!

The baby is making sounds but not intelligible ones.  His parents continue love him and praise him, and model perfect language.  He says more nouns, and later a few verbs.  He even starts to form two-word sentences.  “Wan down!”  “Go bye-bye!”  The wise parent praises his toddler, but continues to model perfect speech.  The parent may repeat, “You want down.  Yes, son.  You want down,” as he reinforces and reteaches correct pronunciation.

By age five, most children have mastered the basics of language.  They speak in complex sentences, and are able to make their wants and wishes known.  They may learn a few more vocabulary words once they start school.  They may even learn to diagram a sentence, but most of what they have learned they learn from their parents, not the twelve years spent in formal education.

To apply this to playing the violin, music instruction should begin before the birth of the child. The same way that expectant moms are known to pat their bellies and talk to their little preborn child, they can also play excellent recordings of violin music. If they play the same one over and over, it may have a calming effect on the newborn, and help the infant sleep better.

When the child is a toddler, often around age 2, the mother then starts violin instruction, but brings her child to every lesson. This is important, for the mother must understand the basics of violin before she can help her child practice. As soon as the toddler shows an interest in imitating his mom, then he begins formal violin instruction. The Suzuki method continues to teach in the same manner as language acquisition, though. The child listens to a recording of the short musical selection he is to learn – as much as ten thousand times! The child learns how it is supposed to sound, and learns to correct himself. Because Suzuki students concentrate so much on building listening skills, they often perform very well in all areas of study in school.

Little children continue to attend music lessons on a weekly basis, but it is imperative that a parent practice with them at home. Practice does NOT make perfect! Only perfect practice makes perfect. If you practice something wrong, you learn to do it wrong.

There are many books, blogs, and websites available to help Suzuki parents. There are charts for daily practice,  motivational techniques, and more. Then communities with larger Suzuki programs may also have group lessons and theory classes for their little students. The group lessons are a blast, and often all the motivation that young students need. However, I had four children enrolled in a great Suzuki program, so I basically had twelve half-hour classes a week! It wasn’t far to the church where the program rented space, but it was too far to walk. When two of my four decided they didn’t really want to continue, I didn’t try very hard to change their minds.

None of my children majored in music when they went to college. But they are all musical. They sing in church choirs. They sing when they do their chores or take a shower. My son took his violin with him to Korea when he was stationed there. My oldest daughter plays her violin for her daughter now. And I think that my children do have beautiful spirits. They care about deeply about each other, often calling each other more frequently than they call me! They care about their friends and neighbors. They are considerate, polite, responsible, resourceful young adults. I’m so proud of them.

I can’t guarantee that if your child studies the violin he will be a kind, responsible adult. No program of instruction can do that. But I do believe that the time a parent spends actively involved with his child can make a world of difference.  So whether it be in music, baseball, camping, biking or stamp collecting – whatever is your passion, share it with your child.